Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. I Thessalonians 5:16-18
Recently I remembered a joke about three men who, while walking along the beach, stumble upon a lamp. As they rub the lamp a genie appears and says “Normally I would grant you 3 wishes, but since there are 3 of you, I will grant you each one wish.” The first man wanting to be smarter, wishes to be twice and smart. The genie grants his wish. The second man wishes to be twice as smart as the first man. The genie grants his wish. The third man wishes to be four times as smart as the second man. The genie asks him, “Are you sure?” He is and the genie snaps his fingers and turns him into a woman.
Aside from the men bashing main point of the joke, we can derive another point. Be careful what you wish for! Often we wish for things that we cannot see the outcome or consequences of.
We often do the same thing with prayer. We ask for things or actions on our behalf that we cannot see the outcome of. We often desire things, that if granted, would have negative consequences for us and others. We pray for our will and forget about that “thy kingdom come, thy will be done” part.
Many people treat God like a genie in a bottle. People show up in church who haven’t been to church for months or even years. Hopefully, it’s repentance and a desire to have more of God and his Word in their life. But often the reason is less admirable. They need something.
And how many of us have prayer lives that are almost non-existent and then dramatically increase during times of trial and stress. We seem to become more faithful during the times when we need something…and we treat God like a genie in a bottle.
And it is true. God wants us to come to him and ask him for assistance when we have need or when we’re in trouble. But he also wants us to come and chat every day and many moments throughout the day. God’s will is for us to be in continual fellowship with him. And he wants to bless us each and every day, and in fact does.
Jesus showed us something important when he taught his disciples how to pray. And Martin Luther describes it beautifully when he explains the first petition of the Lord’s Prayer.
Our Father in heaven
What does this mean? With these words God tenderly invites us to believe that he is our true Father and that we are his true children, so that we may pray to him as boldly and confidently as dear children ask their dear father.
God does want us to approach him, seek him out, and ask him for help. However, God loves us too much to just give us what we want, when we want. In fact, the majority of us, if we got exactly what we wanted, when we wanted it, we would quickly self-destruct. It’s in our sin cursed nature to do so.
God doesn’t always give us what we want. He gives us something much better. He gives us what we actually need. And what we need most, more than anything else, is a Savior. And that’s what God gives us “in Christ Jesus”.
From Hebrews 9-For Christ…entered heaven itself to appear on our behalf in God’s presence…Just as man is destined to die once, and after that to face judgment, so Christ was sacrificed once to take away the sins of many people; and he will appear a second time, not to bear sin, but to bring salvation to those who are waiting for him.
We may often treat God like a genie in a bottle, calling on him when we need help or get into trouble. Asking him for what we want. God treats us like his children. He gives us what is best for us, when it is best for us. And he gives us what we truly need!
Heavenly Father, we give you thanks. Lord, you know the ins and outs of life. You know what the future holds. You know what’s best for us and what will bring about the most good. We thank you that you give us what we need, rather than what we often want. Lord, align our desires to coincide with your sovereign will. Teach us to be in your will. Teach us to always be joyful, to pray at all times, and to give thanks always and everywhere. We ask this in Christ Jesus, Amen.